CARLOS OSORIO/TORONTO STAR

Helen Watling and Jake, 12: "I don't want it to be my kid for sure," she says of her decision to vaccinate her son.

Should I vaccinate my kids?

October 28, 2009

YES

NAME: Helen Watling, 49

CAREER: Works for Toronto District School Board trustee Gary Crawford

CHILDREN: Daughter Delaney, 15, and Jake, 12

"Unlike any other flu that I have been aware of, this has been the most life-threatening and has some health implications involving the respiratory system. My son is active, he plays hockey and baseball and is involved in school sports and around a lot of kids. I just don't want him susceptible. It is heart-wrenching to see an average kid going about his life and having fun end up dying. ... I don't want it to be my kid for sure. I don't want it to be anybody's kid."

NO

NAME: Monique Fabregas, 38

CAREER: Full-time mom

CHILDREN: Talia, 6, and twin boys, 13 months

"I am just as afraid as everyone about the virus, but I have decided to forgo because I consider our exposure quite low. They are not in daycare, they are home with me. My daughter is in a small school. I am not just going in blindly and counting on just fighting it off without anything. We go to a pediatrician and they have a pediatric naturopath as well.

I am concerned about the mercury and aluminum in the vaccine. I can't imagine aluminum and mercury being good for my babies. ... It is not a decision I made lightly."

MAYBE

NAME: Michelle DeMarchi, 40

CAREER: Physiotherapist, osteopath

CHILDREN: Ben, 4, and Sofia, 2

"Up until (Tuesday) morning I had decided not to take the vaccination myself, or give it to my kids. Then I heard about (Evan Frustaglio). It made me rethink my decision.

If the risk is simply getting the flu for a week ... then I am willing to take that risk. But when you hear that seemingly healthy people are dying, that is not a risk I am willing to take. So I am now at a point where I will speak to my doctor again and my kids' pediatrician. ... It is worrying because you really want to do what is best for your kids."